Yesterday I had what I can only
term a “Power Lunch” with a friend whom I haven’t connected with for a few
years. Our “Power Lunch” wasn’t the kind
of lunch where high stakes corporate mergers are born. It was the kind of meeting where life
transformation is discussed, tears are shed and dreams are shared. It lasted over four hours!
My friend and I have run into each
other at women’s retreats and commit to connecting for some one-on-one time,
but for whatever reason, we didn’t get a date on the calendar. As the date for this commitment approached
last week, my anxiety seemed to rise on how I was going to get everything
done. And this commitment came close to
being cancelled. Thankfully that didn’t
happen.
Waiting for a table at the
restaurant seemed to take forever. When
the time came to seat us, my friend asked for a table in a quiet area (away
from the group of noisy kids just seated).
I knew this was going to be some good quality time. After we ordered lunch, we fell into a
natural routine of sharing what God was doing in our lives. It was like we never parted.
Our relationship goes back to the
first day I walked into a Celebrate Recovery meeting, eight years ago this week. I was drawn to her warmth, vulnerability and
sense of humor. She made a lasting
favorable impression on me. I’m sure she
was one of the influencing factors that helped me to overcome my uneasiness and
skepticism on whether to return to those first meetings.
What is interesting is that on the
surface, we didn’t seem to have anything in common. Our recovery issues were very different. But since my work addiction landed me in
recovery, I attended the breakout group for addictive behaviors. I met some very interesting people—whom I
still consider friends. They were some
of the core women who started my accountability and support team. And they were just what I needed to foster my
relationship with God.
That was a very difficult time in
my life. I was learning to let down the
wall around my heart and let people see the real me. It was risky, but worth the effort as I
started to feel loved and accepted for who I was and not what I did. It was where my love for God moved from my
head to my heart.
Eight years later, my friend and I
both marveled at what God has done in our lives and how He is using us in our
spheres of influence. I won’t soon
forget her words of exhortation and grace as we parted company. They were a life-giving gift and confirmation
of the transformation that God has done in me this past year.
I am incredibly grateful to God for this
season of growth. And yesterday I was
reminded how blessed I am for the life-giving relationships I’ve sowed along
the way.
When was the last time you had a
“Power Lunch” and who was it with? Who
has God placed on your heart to connect with lately? What is stopping you?
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